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Writing Samples
What Happened When I Validated My Son's Autism Behaviors
Originally published on The Mighty.com, September 2018
My son is “obsessed” with trains. From the time he was 2 years-old until now (he’s 16) he has “obsessed” about trains, begged to ride the subway, watched train videos, operated his own train simulator and now he is a proud member of the Union County Model Railroad Club in Union, New Jersey. You get the picture.
I know I am not alone in trying to manage an “obsession” or perseveration in a child with autism. I know parents whose children are “obsessed” with fish or clocks or conveyor belts. I know one child who is “obsessed” with cardboard boxes. His parents don’t know what to do with all the collecting of boxes, stacking of boxes and asking neighbors for boxes.
The question is, how much is too much?
5 Things That Can Help You Stay Calm During an IEP Meeting
Originally published on The Mighty.com, May 2018
For me, staying calms equals winning.
When my son was younger, I could easily be close to tears before I even walked into an IEP meeting. Many of us know what an emotional rabbit hole this journey can be. As parents, we are coming from a much more vulnerable vantage point than the Principal, Director, teachers, therapists and entire team. Hopefully, they care deeply about your child (most do), but since they aren’t emotionally invested the way you are, they have a different perspective.
Best Blogs for Moms with Special Needs Children
Originally published on NeedQuest.com
Special Needs Blogs
Scary Mommy Special Needs
Scary Mommy was started by Jill Smokler in early 2008 as an innocent online baby book to chronicle her stay-at-home days with her children. It transformed into a massive vibrant community of millions of parents, brought together by a common theme: Parenting doesn’t have to be perfect.
The Mighty
The Mighty is a safe, supportive community for people facing health challenges and the people who care for them.
How I Parent
How I Parent explores the ins and outs of modern day parenting with moms and dads from all over the country, who are raising their own unique families and sharing their best advice and most heartfelt lessons with people.